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Feeling Drained at Work? Here’s How To Find The Perfect Energy For Every Occassion

men and women puzzle piecesCan I just share how happy I am that October is finally here?  September has been, undoubtedly, the hardest month of my life after losing my dad to cancer.  Bringing with it an extremely busy month full of kid’s activities and commitments and I was ready to cancel out the rest of 2014 and become a hermit.  The truth is, that’s just not possible, so I’ve had to figure out how to get things done, without losing myself in the process.

No one can be “on” all the time, so it’s a matter of figuring out where to best direct my energy (and how to avoid the things that drain my energy with little return).  My example is one of daily life use, but it’s structured based on the philosophies and teaching from Betty Ann Heggie.  In her latest blog post titled The Perfect Energy For Every Occasion, Betty Ann Heggie looks at how we can use either our Masculine or Feminine Energy for specific situations to get the best result.

Whether it is due to nature or nurture, the natural energy of most women is the collaborative, process-oriented Feminine Energy which focuses first on the collective. Yet, many are working in goal-driven, individualistic, command and control Masculine Energy environments.

This creates a disconnect, but consider it like traveling to a foreign land. If you are open to another’s culture, you can participate in it and even enjoy the experience. Energy patterns are the same. Once you are secure in your Feminine Energy you can travel to Masculine Energy territory, try it’s customs and incorporate those of value.

– Betty Ann Heggie, “The Perfect Energy For Every Occasion”

betty ann heggie guest  speakerI love her analogy of traveling to a foreign land (especially since she’s currently traveling on the other side of the globe and making me jealous with gorgeous pictures like the one above from Cordoba, Spain!). Have you ever had a conversation with your spouse where you looked at him as though he were from another planet? Or better yet, maybe he looked at you that way? Sometimes a person’s reactions are so far off from what we expect that we feel that way. If we can learn how a person operates, how their “culture” as it were works, we’re better able to understand them and work with them.

The perfect energy for every occasion is there for you. Get to know what energizes you as an individual, consider it in the context of your preferred gender energy and access your complimentary energy to your advantage.

– Betty Ann Heggie, “The Perfect Energy For Every Occasion”

Are you having an ah-ha moment reading this? If so, or if you’re interested to learn more having been in that foreign land before, take a look at Betty Ann’s blog post and leave a comment below to enter our monthly contest!

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